Artwork: Tamara Adams

How do you know if you still carry wounds on the divine feminine aspect in you (goes for men and women)….? 

Well if you are in a relationship have an honest look or if not, how is your relation and interaction with the other gender in generel?  Do you feel honored and respected, do you feel supported and loved unconditionally for who you are, do you feel free to speak up your truth and share your emotions freely without fear of repurcussions, or do you feel restricted and limited in your self expression? Do you often feel hurt, rejected or belittled or emotionally abused, then there is an evidence of one or more wounds on your divine feminine aspect of self. And how is your relationship to women? Do you feel supported by other women, do you trust them and feel safe with them, or do you feel threatened in the presence and interaction with other women, suspicous or cautious… mayby you even have experiences of being betrayed not only by men but also by women. 

If you are stuck in an abusive relationship and feel unable or even unwilling to walk away, you may have given your power away and become dependent on external validation and acknowledgement. Many that still carry deep wounds on their divine feminine are stuck in relationships, that are characterized by ongoing dramas and battles, that rip open these wounds on and on and are unable to move on and rid themselves of their abusive partner, because of co-dependency and the fear of being on their own and thus subject to their own lack of love and hence stay in toxic relationships and environments for years and years creating new wounds on and on while deepening the wounds of the past. Until you have healed the wounds and embraced all aspects of self as divine, you will not be able to love self unconditionally and will repeatedly attract partners or people (in generel) who reflect your lack of self love, distrust and fear of rejection and abandonment. The very key to your ascension is to establish divine harmony within, thru balancing your divine feminine and masculine aspects, so it is vital to heal your wounds on both your divine feminine and masculine aspects. Take an honest look at your relationships and see where you give your power away, where you buy into other´s opionions about you. Do you feel inadequete and unworthy and afraid of speaking your truth and just be who you are… are you hesistant and cautious about being authentic and true.. this indicates, that you carry wounds on either your divine feminine or masculine aspects and there is a deep need for healing. A loving nurturing relationship to self is the premise for a loving relationship to others, whether it be partner, friends, lovers etc. The acceleration of light is ruthlessly bringing to the forefront our deepest wounds (and where we hold onto illusion), so use its powerful energy to cleanse and heal the wounds, that are emerging and any outdated beliefs, that are sustaining you in living and or remaining in unfulling relationships to self and others. We are moving towards the powerful portal of the summer solstice a wonderful opportunity to free yourself of all outdated energy, negative beliefs and programming, that have kept you small and undeserving of love.  I have helped hundreds of women to free themselves from toxic relationships and start loving themselves, to reclaim their power thru healing their wounds. Feel free to contact me, if you feel called to have me assisting you holding the space for the wounds to heal and pin-point where you are giving your power away, because of deep unconscious wounds on your divine feminine, divine masculine or inner child aspects. I would be delighted and honored to help you in any way I can. Please go to my website to read more about the various sessions, that I offer, if you feel called. Feeling safe is the premise for opening up to self love, I offer this space when you are ready.  ~ Grace Solaris